Saying I Do Before It's All Done

We all want our wedding day to be perfect. Asahead of time.
the day approaches and your "to do" list growsSometimes you get so overwhelmed by planning
shorter, you may begin to realize that everythingthe wedding that you overlook your honeymoon
isn't coming together as well as you hoped. Youplans. You might have your airline tickets and
may have relationship issues with your mother,hotels booked but you really haven't researched
his mother, one of your bridesmaids, or somethe location. Visiting travel forums may have
other important person that you wanted tohelped you decide what were the best
resolve. Maybe this person isn't giving yourrestaurants, clubs and sites of interest. But you
wedding a high priority. We can make thingsnever got around to it. It really shouldn't be
easier on ourselves if we lower our expectationsnecessary to micro manage your honeymoon.
of people just a little bit. And what makes thisThe best honeymoon is a relaxing reward for all
hard is that our expectations of a perfectthe hard work that goes into planning a wedding.
wedding are so high to begin with.What do you do when the big day arrives and
We like to think that everyone who received anthere's still a lot of "loose ends"? You remind
invitation will RSVP. And of course they don't. Ityourself that life is a journey. You may not repair
would make things so much easier to have anthat relationship before your wedding but there's
exact number in order to make sure there arestill plenty of time to try. Some things you
enough food, liquor, wedding favors, and evenordered online didn't arrive on time. Do what
room on the dance floor. If you could know forpeople did before the Internet, go out to the
certain that 20 guests were not going to be ablestore and buy what you need, even if it's not as
to make it, then you could invite an additional 20perfect. Get as much done as you can, be
acquaintance or co workers. But this isn't going tograteful for all that you have accomplished, and
happen and you may as well prepare yourselfcelebrate!